How do i know if my girlfriend is gay

I’m not a gay but

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I’m 27 guy straight , I always watch porn while masturbating. Two year ago I got bored of normal porn so I started watching gay porn I liked it then I started chatting men masturbating together and even I played in my ass and it’s so sexy
But I contain never get attracted to men.

I stopped watching gay porn and I got a girlfriend we enjoy so much together but It is sometimes difficult to me to get hard and sometimes difficult to keep firm if I didn’t take a medication otherwise if I watched gay porn I get difficult rock in one second

I am a big guy and I haven’t had sex with men before and I don’t verb, I just feel like I have a brain blockers and I can’t solve this!!

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Can anyone help me??
Anyone had the same experience?

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Hey

Sexuality is a scary thing, and something that is sometimes difficult to get your head around! The important thing is that you don’t need to label things, and it’s often more fluid then what people often think.

Some people like men, some people lik

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