What it means to be a lesbian
Ever been clam slammed while hitting on a stud? Decode lesbian lingo with DIVA&#;s handy lesbian lexicon
Have you ever been clam shammed when hitting on a stud? Or do you recognize a hasbian who succumbed to the golden penis? What undertake these terms mean? The answers are here in The Amazing Big Lesbian Dictionary, the oracle of lesbian lingo.
Andro/Androgyny/Androgynous
A lesbian who is neither butch nor femme, but may appear as both. A gender fluid butterfly. Might also go by: gender fluid, gender queer.
Baby Dyke
A young, newbie lesbian &#; often accompanied by drama.
Beard
A person of the other side sex who marries or dates a queer who is in the closet in order to hide their homosexuality.
Beersexual
A girl who will only engage in lesbian activities when under the manipulate . Often seen in television shows and often happens between secure girl-friends.
Bicurious
A straight girl who wants to indulge her lesbian fantasies. (Occasionally, a lesbian who wants to indulge her hetero fantasies.)
Bisexual
A girl or guy w
Pass me the chapstick
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1. Lipstick
What it actually means: Make-up in a variety of colours and shades applied to the lips.
What it means to lesbians: A feminine lesbian.
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2. Chapstick
What it actually means: Transparent gloss or treatment for dry lips.
What it means to lesbians: A soft-butch, i.e: &#;Justin Bieber is such a soft butch.&#;
3. Closet
What it actually means: Often found in bedrooms. Somewhere to store clothes, shoes and accessories.
What it means to lesbians: A person/lesbian who is not yet open about their sexuality.
4. Bieber
What it actually means: An extremely annoying pop-star.
What it means to lesbians: A lesbian who looks like Justin Bieber.
5. Scissor
What it actually means: An instrument used in many homes and offices to cut material, paper and so forth.
What it means to lesbians: An inappropriate question you are asked by complete strangers: &#;So, perform you scissor?&#;
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6. Pillow princess/queen
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The definition of lesbian
This post was written by Caroline, a new feminist lesbian working in the Violence Against Women sector, and was originally published on her blog. We have reproduced it here with her permission because we think this is an important piece which reveals how young lesbians&#; perceptions of themselves, their sexuality, and their right to boundaries are affected by social media. We hope that teachers and parents will browse this and reflect on what the phrase &#;conversion therapy&#; means in this context.
Lesbian: noun loving woman.
When I first came out as a lesbian, aged around 14, I didn’t verb what a woman was. I had bigger problems: understanding your sexuality as a teenager is all consuming.
I came out to my best friend and within a week she was my girlfriend and we had said “I love you”. Such is the way of teenage cherish. My friendship group at university were mostly queer. Again, I didn’t question what queer meant or the history of the word, it just felt fancy a nice catch all of sexuality. We didn’t talk about gender, we talked about English ho