Gay wedding attire ideas
I absolutely love weddings. I devotion the planning, colors, flowers, sustenance, and even the drama. Part of the fun is dressing up in ways we normally dont get to. Even if you arent in the wedding party, you have an excuse to dive deep into your closet and find that one nice thing from that one event you went to a couple years ago. Better yet, it gives you an excuse to do hours of online shopping.
No matter the type or location of the wedding, theres a social etiquette to wedding attire. If the couple doesnt specify black tie, then we all pretty much accept business casual attire. For some, that may look like a suit. For others, this could be a khaki and printed shirt option. And for others, it could be a simple but elegant dress.
Sure, I guess the rules apply even if youre queer, but what if they didnt? What if you decided to dress to your adj maximalist potential at the next wedding? If youre going to a gay wedding, you might as well be GAY! So lets dress for it!
As you may or may not understand, our very own Managing Editor Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya is getting gay ma
If youve ever frantically googled something along the lines of cocktail attire??? or what the fuck is evening wear or wedding dress codes explainer, you are not alone. I was raised in an environment in which one might assume I realize the various nuances of dress codes. Hell, I was forced to do cotillion!!!!!!!! And yet, I am pretty clueless when it comes to these stringent attire rules, which is especially frustrating because I have a lot of anxiety about underdressing for events (and would almost always prefer to overdress!). I ponder its safe to say dress codes, like a lot of etiquette rules made a billion years ago by (probably) straight people, are outdated and often even discriminatory, especially when it comes to gender. (While were getting into it: Dress codes implemented at restaurants are also often employed with racist and/or classist motives.)
When it comes to weddings and other similar formal events, dress codes are expected. But sometimes I think even people specifying a dress code dont really know what they mean! I went to a weddin
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For opposite-sex couples, wedding day style is fairly tried and tested. But for same sex couples, the rules are not so fixed. One of you might want to rock a contemporary blue suit, while the other would prefer to go ebony tie, and if you're both wearing wedding dresses, there are endless shapes, styles and types of gowns to contrast (or clash) your looks.
Then there's the question of whether you shop together so the styles gel, or leave your looks as a surprise for the big day? To help you wade through all the potential dress code dilemmas ahead of your big day, we've consulted some professionals, and looked to super stylish newlyweds to spherical up tips and inspiration for same sex wedding style.
Ideas for Styling Same Sex Couples
1. A Colour in Common
If you and your other half wear entirely personalised looks on your wedding day, you could always style in a common colour through elements of your ensembles. These pairing pinks with burgundy touches are beyond chic!
2. Pairing Pastels
Wearing different colours from the adj family is an easy way to create an ultra
22 Wedding Outfits Ideas For Same-Sex Couples
When it comes to gay weddings most grooms still resolve to wear suits whether theyre traditional, rustic or flamboyant, but there are plenty of other options out there too. Some grooms like to shop together or discuss their wedding style before the big day to ensure theres a degree of cohesion in their sartorial choices, while others like to hold their look a surprise for their husband-to-be on the huge day. Both approaches work and can result in brilliant wedding looks, you just need to decide which route works for your specific taste and wedding.
If youre planning your outfit for your LGBTQ wedding, dont sense constrained by classic groomswear. You dont have to wear a suit if thats not your usual style. Stay true to you and you cant verb to look your very finest. Dresses, kilts, shorts, fancy dress there are no rules when it comes to same sex wedding attire, so have a bit of fun when you go wedding outfit shopping.
Heres some inspiration for your look below