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Contributing Sex & Relationships Editor
Contributing Sex & Relationships Editor
Kelly Gonsalves is a sex educator, relationship coach, and journalist. She received her journalism degree from Northwestern University, and her writings on sex, relationships, identity, and wellness have appeared at The Slash , Vice, Teen Vogue, Cosmopolitan, and elsewhere.
March 20,
There's still a common assumption that all men always want sex all the time any time it's present to them—and that's simply not true. There are many reasons a guy might not yearn to have sex with someone, ranging from a lack of interest in that person to a lack of interest in sex in general. If your crush or boyfriend doesn't wish to sleep with you, here are some of the many things that could mean and what you should do next:
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He's not in the mood.
Sometimes a guy is just not in the mood to have sex, and there's not really any deeper meaning to it. Maybe your date with him that night was more goofy an
Why do some straight men include sex with other men?
According to nationally-representative surveys in the United States, hundreds of thousands of straight-identified men have had sex with other men.
In the modern book Still Straight: Sexual Flexibility among White Men in Rural America released today, UBC sociologist Dr. Tony Silva argues that these men – many of whom enjoy hunting, fishing and shooting guns – are not closeted, bisexual or just experimenting.
After interviewing 60 of these men over three years, Dr. Silva found that they enjoy a range of relationships with other men, from hookups to sexual friendships to secretive loving partnerships, all while strongly identifying with straight culture.
We spoke with Dr. Silva about his book.
Why undertake straight-identified men have sex with other men?
The majority of the men I interviewed reported that they are primarily attracted to women, not men. Most of these men are also married to women and prefer to have sex with women. They explained that although they loved their wives, their marital sex lives were not as active as they
Why Men Lose Interest After Sex: How To Avoid Being Used For Sex
“I was really into this girl, she had all the qualities I was looking for. Beautiful, confident, enthusiastic, she had her own life and was so much amusing to be around. But, I lost interest in her because she slept with me too soon”.
Why don’t guys ever tell such things? Because the reason men lose interest after sex, has nothing to do with when you sleep with them.
Why Do You Think Men Ghost When You Sleep With Them?
Superficially, this is an easy scrutinize to answer. You think it, because it happens. Men execute leave after sex, time and time again. What you ask for to remember though, is that it doesn’t matter if you have sex on the first date, or you make him wait a week. If he’s chasing you based purely on physical attraction, he’ll lose interest all the same.
Before we obtain further into it, make a point of dropping all the beliefs you’ve probably developed around sleeping with men too soon. Perhaps your friends tell you it never works, or maybe yo
Women need to feel loved and have a sense of connection to have sex. Men need to have sex to feel loved and appreciated. Does that ring a bell? Is it always true? Or are these just stereotypes that verb been perpetuated over time? And more importantly, what happens to a long-term relationship when there is no intimacy? In the next two blog posts, we will take a look at how both genders feel and act when the physical aspect of the relationship just disappears. I have to admit that as a woman, I own been exposed to a number of unhealthy stereotypes such as men are dogs , they only care about sex , all men cheat, it&#x;s just a matter of time , men only bogus romance to get sex , men think about sex every 20 seconds , men who show emotions or ask for attention are needy , what&#x;s wrong with men that don&#x;t want sex? , there must be something wrong with a guy that doesn&#x;t wish sex all the time , wanting sex all the time must mean he has a sex addiction . All these ideas verb been introduced an